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Sex, sex drive and sexual orientation have a great significance in the leadership. It determines the degree of leadership ability and leadership traits. If you look at history you will find that all great leaders had a strange and unique sexual life. The power that a man or woman has also expressed in his or her sexual behavior. Leadership is directly linked with the energy that a person has to invest on a cause. So some way the sexual behavior and the leadership traits are directly linked. Before linking the sex and the leadership lets understand both sex and the leadership and what relationship that they might have. Sex is a raw power that a man and woman can have. It is a power to reproduce. It is a power to create/produce something. The sexual act alone demands a huge amount of energy, And to get some one agree to the sexual act needs a great deal of communication and convincing capability. Nothing in the world can be achieved alone. You need to convince people and bring them together for a cause. Does it sound familiar? Leadership!! Leadership demands that a leader understands his people. He/She needs to fulfill the need of people or set a relationship between the need of people and the vision that he/ she has. The leader needs to go to any extent to bringing the people together. The leader needs to shade his/her ego to bring the people together for the cause. The sex demands the same challenge. Giving up the ego, surrender to some one else. Dedicate to some one dear to you. Next follows the act. It is very essential the act itself has to be performed in a great coordination, and with precision. The team or the partner has to understand the motive and the purpose. There is very little scope of extensive communication during the act. So the understanding of the follower with the leader is very essential. The quality is another aspect that sets a relationship between the sex and the leadership. The precession and the every detail of the act have to be planned. And to some extent the leader has to go with the flow of the events. The leader also has to develop a sense of trust. And has to trust and delegate the responsibility. The leader must understand that he/she is a leader as well as a follower. He should lead and also should allow other to lead him/her. The act or the project must be beneficial to both and must be fulfilling for all. Everything is fare in love and war. A leader is as fearless in his leadership and leading people in the unconventional path as in his/her sex life. Most of the time to win a great leader does not hesitate to take unconventional path. That’s true in sex too, many great leaders had very abnormal and innovative sex life. Reading this article also imply your ability to be comfortable with a dificult subject and be open about it. The subject that is not discussed openly though it affects everyone's life. Lets take example of some of the great leaders. And see how this aspect truly reflected in their lives. Mahatma Gandhi: is famous for his experiment with the opposite sex. And he has admitted the same in many occasions. He had observed celibacy strictly. There were many ladies in his ASHRAM. They all flock around him and egger to serve him. Most of them were not married till the end of their lives. British Royal Family was famous for their active sex life. There were a lot of controversy and stories around them. However the raw power they pose had shown in both their leadership and sex. Mao Zedong was very famous for his relationship with woman. He had said to have venereal disease and woman used to claim to have the same disease just to say they had a relationship with him. This shows how he had capsized the mind of opposite sex. He had demonstrated the same power and charisma in his political life too. There are a lot of example of the leaders and their active sex lives. Albert Einstein, Winston Churchill, Jawaharlal Nehru. Adolf Hitler Etc.
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